Ok, today I want to ramble about a simple subject that has bothered me my entire life: why should we greet women different from the way we greet men?, it's so silly!. Let me explain, here in Mexico when you greet a guy you usually shake hands, but when greeting a woman you're also supposed to fake a kiss in the cheek, well, to be honest some people, specially the old ones, actually perform the kiss...
I've never understood why we have to do this, I mean, why make distinctions?, aren't women supposed to be our equals?. Well, I do believe we are, and so I almost always greet everyone the same way: a little 'Hi' and a handshake, and if the handshake can be avoided, perfect!, to me it doesn't matter if you're a child, a man, a woman or whatever.
Of course, most women are used to the traditional convention, this sort of special treatment, and so when I don't do it, it kind of feels strange. I've seen all kinds of reactions, there are those who get offended, those who laugh, those who force the tradition, and my favorite, those who don't care. I specially like this last group, they are truly acting like equals =):.
I'll make you laugh by acting like the guy who sings,
and you'll make me smile by really getting into the swing.